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Choosing the Best Dildo for Your Experience.

Choosing the perfect dildo near you can really be a challenge and it is the first test of communication that you may have in the relationship as you start to branch out and try harness play.  One partner wants a romantic dildo and the other partner wants a 15-inch brown dildo.  (Which is not to say that is not romantic but it is no beginner dildo.) . There are different people who are drawn to harness play for different reasons,  The man who needs a hollow strap-on dildo because heart medication has affected performance has different needs than a girl who wants the best dildo for pegging her man and the woman in a same-sex relationship has another set of needs entirely and her partner may want something different on different days.

Where to buy a Dildo

So where does one start?  Well, of course, I hope you start at Romantic Adventures because naturally, we think we are one of the best adult sex shops in Mississippi, but if not here try to find a sex store near you where they will open packages and let you feel the merchandise.  This is a visceral experience and little subtleties of different sex toys make a huge difference.  In my opinion, Brick and motor shopping is much superior to online shopping because this is an item that is hard to visualize based on some numeric dimensions a good dildo is a very personal thing and there may be qualities you notice in the store that easily escape you online.  ( I was once gifted a g spot dildo that was a good size and felt great but I could not stand the smell of the plasticizer in it.  it had a burnt chemical smell I could not get over.) . That is kind of an old-school problem now as materials have really improved over the last 5-7 years, the industry has come a long way but there are a lot of intangibles that make up the perfect strap-on toy for each individual.

For the Man who needs a hollow strap on, Material makes a difference.  Many of the hollow strap-ons for men have rigid reinforcement molded in so there is no pressure on you to stay up, so check the edges of the hollow end and be sure you can be comfortable in it as it rests against your skin and you need to be sure there are no rough edges or poorly finished molds. 

The perfect fit company makes some great options out of some very soft material (They must have an amazingly talented plastics engineer on staff because it is some next level wizardry.)  Pipe dreams make some very affordable very realistic dildos in every hue of skin color their king cock line of dildos is hand painted and very realistic looking.  There are also bespoke options once you decide you really want to get committed to harnessing play.  

One thing to keep in mind when choosing a hollow strap on is proportion.  The difference in a 10 inch dildo and an 8 inch dildo may not be a big deal as far a length to your lady because her anatomy will only accept so much length and the rest will just stand proud which may feel great for your ego if you started with 6 but the difference in girth between a realistic dildo and a huge pornstar dildo may be a deal breaker for your partner.  Remember we are here to please someone else as well as ourselves and they should get a little input into what they might like to play with if given a choice.

For the Girl who wants to try Pegging

For the girl who wants to try pegging, you are in good company.  This style of harness play seems to really be catching on in many different circles.  The best dildo for pegging is on the smaller side if your partner is not that experienced. 

The Doc Johnson harness kits can be a great option for couples just getting into the practice.  They have dildos of different sizes so you can graduate up or down depending on your partners comfort level and they are based on the vac u loc system so they are easier for a woman to manipulate without the toy popping off with sideways pressure. 

The Feeldoe is another option for the woman who enjoys penetration.  It is a penis extension that it held in place by the vaginal muscles and can be quite stimulating as you flex and relax while pegging your mate.

Since women's hips are made to open for childbirth and not to strictly drive forward sometimes a little feminine rhythm can create challenges until you get the hang of it.  It can be an amazing experience for a couple to share and according to the British Journal of Medicine it can really help a man's prostate health and prevent prostate cancer later in life.

For Women in Same-Sex Relationships

You guys require the most coaching when you come in the store and you are the least likely to take it.  As someone who helps people pick out dildos all the time, let me just say; listen to your girlfriend, please.  Come and pick something out together or come in for date night and look around and watch her face as she looks at things, talk about what she needs and maybe try two toys that are exact polar opposites to see what works better. 

It seems like every couple that comes into Romantic Adventures in Pearl, the one wearing the harness gets into the ego of having the biggest dick in the room and immediately wants a huge dildo when the partner is thinking a 7 inch strap-on dildo would be perfect, or maybe a multi-function bendable dildo would be great to get just the right angle on the G-spot.  Plus a 15-inch dildo is really heavy and you aren't going to want to play that long if it becomes ridiculously hard work.  

I can't tell you how many customers have come in on a Friday night and bought a full harness set up and 12-inch dildo strap on then return on Saturday afternoon for an 8-inch dildo instead.  Also, consider the fact that women have hormones and experience tumescence.  Meaning they like different things on different days.  One very cool thing about a same-sex relationship is that you can pick a different toy which gives a different sensation on a different day and still be with the one you love; you get variety and stability.  Way to multi-task ladies.

Porn Star dildos

Porn star dildo can almost be considered their own class of fetish and if you like to watch porn with your partner and give them the full 3d experience, there are some amazing choices out there.  The jeff stryker dildo is very girthy maybe even more so than the Rocco Steele dildo and the Mr. Marcus vibrating dildo is a classic.  Of course, many of the Porn star dildos are realistic we hear the Jack Harrer is a total crowd pleaser and dock Johnson is in talks with Prince Yahshua for a realistic dildo in his likeness.  the possibilities are endless and if you have a favorite star put them in our search box about and see what is in stock to serve you.

Medicine Ball Dildo

This is a special category that went viral after a twitter vid of some beautiful dark skinned gym rats working their ab muscles out in the way that was truly intended.  There is an exercise dong combination put out by dillio and it is amazing.

A word about Materials: 

Dildos can be made from many different materials for ultraskyn and UR3 to silicone and even Glass dildos can be an amazing sensation as they come to body temperature very quickly and will take a ton of pressure as your partner orgasms around it.  Be sure to grab a lube that is compatible with the type of material you have chosen and a good toy wash or UV light case can be a great investment in taking care of your new toy and making sure everyone stays in the game and is not bothered by infections brought on by bacteria on toys.

Be Happy.  Play Safe.

Love, RA